I met a new friend today, we were talking about the complexity of women in a relationship. Thus we came to a conclusion where why women fails to understand why men can't understand women. So here is what I think :
1. Is not that we're not trying to understand women, is just that sometimes women doesn't know how to make us understand them. You guys gave the wrong approach.
2. We're humans, we make mistakes. Do remind us time to time about our character and attitude. Don't expect us to change the first time you tell us things. Changing needs time.
3. Men are strong and ego upfront, but their heart is fragile. Take good care of us. Our jealousy is pretty high although we don't show it.
4. Controlling is not part of relationship. Understanding one another and treat one another equally is the goal.
5. We're not psychiatrist, we do not know what you think. If you have anything to say, let us know upfront. We do not like to guess what wrongs we did.
6. Relationship is part of life. We forgive each other. Not dwell on the problems but focus more on the solutions.
7. Love is not blind. Hiding and lying is not part of the solution. Guys are mostly responsible for this part as they always lie and hide form their woman.
8. We do give you our full attention. We're willing to sacrifice our friends for you. Don't make us choose.
9. Freedom is to both worlds. Men shouldn't control a women freedom. If she's your, she will be yours.
10. We don't like it when you take us as a rebound. We're not a toy that you think you can moves around. Same goes to guys who simply like to have a gf. Is bad to play around with fire.
I'm not sure whether it applies to all people, but I think majority guys will agree with me. What you guys think ?
- If I ever treat you and act strangely in front of you, i want you to know that my love for you will never die -
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1. Women are not bound to make guys understand us. Instead, men should have the ability to know your women inside out and fully understanding the person you love. You suck for not understanding.
ReplyDelete2. Like mentioned in no.3, you guys are ego asswipes. If we tell you your flaws, you get all sensitive and defensive and start defending yourself like a lil boy.
3. So you think women's level of jealousy is low? :P
4. How about managing instead of controlling? If a woman happens to 'control' u it simply means you can't give her the trust that she's looking for.
5. We women link everything together in our head and jumble all up into one big ball that even we ourselves don't know what was the initial problem that triggered our mood (PMS could be one of the many reasons). But during these times, it's better if u men just stfu and listen. Just Be There!
6. Boy-Girl-Relationship is not a necessity nor part of life :P In fact, many successful women are surviving without men. But without a doubt, no man can succeed without having a woman =p
7. Yeah, so why and hide? Ask yourselves! We women are innocent.
8. Fair enough. Sometimes.
9. Yeah men who control can go suck their mama's tits!
10. We don't take u as rebound. You just happen to come around when we fall =p
1 . Is not that we don't understand you. I think is both side that needs to take initiative to know one another inside out. It applies to girl too ;p
ReplyDelete2. We're ego. But if we're going to live together you need to let us know, no matter how hard it kicked in, we'll try to adhere to your demands if we really love you.
3. Your jealousy is high, we do agree, but don't you find women does thinks without thinking about their bf ?
4. Trust and security comes in a very different way. Is not that you don't trust us, is just that you don't have the confidence in yourself. Or maybe plain selfish ?
5. We're always there for our girlfriends. Is just that you don't take note on us when we're there and you guys dwell on when we are not there ;p
6. Well, many successful woman still doesn't know that when we're old, we need companionship :) and is true successful man has a successful woman behind. I do agree on that :) .
7. Innocent my ass. You guys are one of the major culprit, having crush on major handsome guys. We guys only see one girl, which is our GF :p
8. Well, seems to me you're always dominant and controlling in your relationship ;p so don't argue about that ;p
9. Yes we know we're there when you fall, but doesn't it takes feelings and getting to know one another only be together. But Heck No !!! Maybe your mind is just ...fuck it le...try first, if can't than fuck it;p muahah