Monday, December 7, 2009

Trust

You have to trust me. I think this is a sentence everyone use when they really need someone to trust. I have trusted a lot of people before, and I did got betrayed by a lot of people. I have learned to trust no one except myself. I only trust certain people with certain things.

A lot of people think that with just a word Can you trust me or Please trust me, people would trust them. Trust is something you must earn the whole life and can be ruined in just a moment. Can you forgive the people that you trusted the most and they betray you in that particular moment. To be exact, no one can forgive it. We can just let it go, but the hatred and scar is still there.

I brought up this topic as someone ask me to trust them. I believe I do not need you to trust me and I definitely do not want to earn your trust. If I really trust you, it means you are really part of my life. But once is broken, that's it.

A lot of people abused this trust in themselves. They tend to leak out certain information to other people accidentally or purposely to ruin people's life. A lot of misunderstanding and mis-communication occurred is because other people betrayed you with what you told them. So please be careful when the next time you tell people about your things. Once you said it, there's no turning back.

- A close friend would never ask you why. A true friends would tell you why and A best friend would not ask a single thing, and they will always be there for you when everyone walks -

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